Imagine the following situation:
Recently, Mr. Sabia, a general practitioner, and his family, having taken refuge from the war in Syria, moved into a flat on the same floor as Mr. and Mrs. Smith, who have been living in this block in their home country for 25 years. Mr. Smith is the housing block's maintenance man. Three students, Ada, Ben and Clarissa, also live in the house but on a different floor. During a small talk exchange on the stairs, Mrs. Smith complains to them about the shoes in front of the door, the noise (some strange sounds) and the many visitors who their new neighbours entertain. In the light of these issues, she assumes that Muslim behaviour does not fit into the housing community...
Culture reflexivity approaches this situation by employing three types of assumptions and questions.
- Assuming that social actions are meaningful to the interacting participants, which factors could be culturally typical here (e.g. relating to a country or region)?
- The manifold cultural influences at play mean that there is a high level of complexity and interdependency. So, we could say that there is no single cause, and that possibilities for interpretation are limited. Nevertheless, we still need solutions for the situation: The question, therefore, becomes: 'What happens if we look for solutions without really knowing anything?'
- Which privileges are pre-distributed and which power structures and collective experiences are potentially active in this situation? Which actions could lead to more justice?
Imagine you are a student just like Ada, Ben or Clarissa and you are looking for an interculturally competent answer. The culture reflexive analysis would thus be as follows:
The approach symbolised by the first question is the most familiar one. We either think we know or inquire about the meaning, reasons and motives behind the phenomenon. Maybe the Sabias are simply used to the tradition of removing shoes before entering a home and see this as a common act of politeness. Also, receiving visitors from friends and family while communicating wholeheartedly might be an important component of everyday life for them.
Secondly, we are aware that there are many other collectives that are involved. The Sabias, for example, are not only a family from Syria but are also members of a local sports club (soccer), are Christians, and belong to several other collectives that might be important, but of which we are unaware.
The culture and organisation of the housing community is also crucial here. Are there obligations and house rules? What about the implicit, i.e. unmodified rules, such as: Do the neighbours rarely talk to each other or help each other? Or do they sometimes get together and socialise at parties? What could be the best way of finding a peaceful solution considering all parties' needs and customs? After all, The Smiths' needs do not seem to be met by the new behaviour in the house. And what about the Sabias' needs?
With the third question, the view of the situation differs. Cultural explanations are not completely satisfactory here. Viewing the scenario from this angle, agents in interactions have different resources of social capital, which are pre-distributed unequally and function as hidden influencing factors, giving strength or weakness to the respective parties. Factors such as gender, race, ability, education, language skills, marital status and many more give greater or lesser "weight" to the words of each of the interlocutors. There are asymmetries: The Smiths have a long tradition in the house and are living in their home country (with the respective passport privileges, rights, networks and probably language skills), whilst the Sabias had to leave their home country involuntarily due to war, which probably threw their life into complete disarray, and are now living in a foreign environment with a precarious residence permit status and many other hurdles to tackle.
These are thoughts from the culture reflexive approach that might go through the heads of Ada, Ben and Clarissa. Hence, which reaction and reply to the students might give to the Smith family's complaints is not obvious. For the sake of exemplification, Ada will react according to the first set of questions, Ben according to the second and Clarissa according to the third set of questions.
On the staircase, Ada shows empathy for the situation, and then explains to the Smiths that the Sabias' habits could be of cultural origin. She hopes that there will be more understanding towards the behaviour when the Smiths understand the motives behind it. Ben mentions that the Sabias are Christians, just like the Smiths, and not Muslims. He reminds them that there are no house rules, or at least no one has ever insisted on strict rules. Until now, it has helped that the neighbours know each other's habits (who likes to sleep in, who goes to bed early, who likes to do DIY on the weekends etc.) and that they practice respect for the needs of the others in this way. He reminds the Smiths of these helpful practices and encourages them to invite the Sabias to talk to them about the situation and possible solutions at a suitable moment. He also offers to invite both families for tea to meet and maybe talk about living together in one house. It may well be, for example, that the Sabias have encountered irritations by others in the house as well.
Clarissa tells the Smiths she is happy that they have so much company in their new home since losing your home must be such a traumatic experience and she would not want to have their fate. She admits that she, too, is sometimes disturbed by the noise when she is trying to study for exams, but then she thinks of the kinds of noise they must have gone through: bombs, battles etc., and is relieved that the noise in this house is only conversation and laughter. This puts things into perspective for her and she decides to find her own solution by wearing ear plugs when studying.
The three students opted for different strategies based on different ideas which influenced the situation. The idea of a culture-reflexive approach is to multiply the perspectives on what we think is culture systematically, as shown in the example above. Ada goes for interpreting the situation from a cultural habit, a classical intercultural approach. Ben is aware that given so many collective belongings and the dynamic nature of cultures we cannot clearly know the reasons for actions which means we have to inquire, work with nescience or in other words with “not knowing” and jointly find solutions. Clarissa anticipates the power asymmetries in the situation. Compared to the new neighbours, those residents without a refugee background do have privileges i.e. knowing local rules, feeling safe or having a secure residence status. These meta-perspectives are accomplished by reflecting on and adopting all of these different possible perspectives in turn.